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What if we could halve father absence in a generation?

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When fathers and father figures are present and positively engaged, children thrive – academically, financially, physically and emotionally – and are less likely to face mental health challenges, addiction and violence.

Heartlines Fathers Matter encourages the active, positive presence of fathers and father figures. It is the largest campaign of its kind in Africa. 

2.5 million
people have watched our Fathers Matter films
12,000+
users on our WhatsApp Coach
26,000
people reached through our face-to-face programmes
112
partner organsiations in our network

Fathers Matter can be used in many different contexts to help people understand WHY fathers matter and how they can be part of changing the story of fatherhood in South Africa.

 

For Men
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Get tips and resources for fathers and father figures.

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For Women
Fathers Matter Women

Women’s voices matter in the Fathers Matter conversation. Find out more.

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For Organisations
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Get resources to help fathers in your organisation or community.

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Changing lives, families and communities

Watch and read testimonies from people who've been impacted by Fathers Matter.

"I have learned
that being present is not enough, we need to be active. When I let go of my child's hand that's when the gangster takes it."- Firefighter, Kynsna
Fathers Matter changed my life
"The session was truly valuable
You addressed the issue of absent fathers and the relationship between fathers and their children in a way that resonated deeply with those present."- Bishop Bheki Buthelezi
"This session has allowed me
to deal with wound that I've been carrying for years. For the first time I feel I can talk about it begin my healing journey..."- Workshop Participant
"I am happy
to finally have an opportunity to get to know my father better through this programme of Fathers Matter."- Karabo, Roodepoort
"We would greatly appreciate it
if similar workshops could be held in other parts of eMpangeni, Eshowe, and Melmoth. There is a real need for this work in our communities."- Bishop Bheki Buthelezi

Stories

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Nevelia Moloi

Why do women matter in a conversation about fathers?

Women's experiences of fatherhood shape how we see ourselves, and our place in the world. And as women, young or old, we owe it to ourselves to begin the work of coming to terms with our own father story and how it’s impacted who we are today.

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Fathers Love Language
Bonolo Mokua

My father's love language

As we think about our father stories, it can help to remember that fathers are people, just like us. And sometimes, connection grows from understanding how they give and receive love. 

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Reader Contribution

I am a father: Reflections on fatherhood, legacy and presence

I owe my being to the love and bond with my children, the joys and challenges of raising them, the precious moments and shared experiences that define the essence of fatherhood.

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See the winning competition entries

See some of the winning entries from our Youth Month Competition. The competition was an opportunity for children to share their views about fatherhood. There were some powerful, inspiring and moving submissions. 

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Themba Dlamini

'I grew up without a father and I turned out fine'

We are very sure about fatherlessness, and that's a problem. Themba Dlamini shares how one radio conversation exposed a national blind spot about faterhood in South Africa. 

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Themba Dlamini

The measure of a man is not in his fists

In many communities, the dominant image of manhood remains physical – protect, provide, endure, fight. These instincts are not inherently wrong. But they are incomplete.

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