Themba has carried the strange inheritance of needing to father his father, and has come to believe that it means three different things. Read his powerful reflections.
Life after the suicide of a loved one is not something anyone can ever truly prepare for. It is not a straight line of healing, nor a simple process of moving on. Instead, it is a winding journey marked by questions, contradictions and constant reminders of what has been lost.
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