Introduction

Objective

Introduce the concept of public and private telling.

Activity: My story in post-its (10 min)

Step 1: 

Make a chart or use the wall with the following headings:

  • A story I feel comfortable sharing 
  • A story I feel uncomfortable to share with 
  • Three people I feel comfortable to share with 
  • Three people I don't feel comfortable sharing with 

Each participant is given four post-its: yellow, pink, blue and green. They must not write their name on them. Tell the learners that you will be re-writing the answers from the post-its before the class sees them.

Step 2:

On their blue post-it, the learner should write the title of a personal story they would feel comfortable to share.
E.g. ‘My childhood’, ‘The day I was bullied’, ‘My favourite pet’.

Step 3: Listen

On their pink post-it, the learner must write one word to summarise a story that they would not feel comfortable sharing.
E.g. ‘divorce’, ‘depression’, ‘bullying’.

Step 4:

On their yellow post-it, the learner writes down three people they feel comfortable sharing their story with.
E.g. Mom, sister, friend.

Step 5:

On their green post-it, the learner writes down three people they would feel uncomfortable or unsafe sharing their story with.
E.g. uncle, policeman.

Step 6:

Collect all the post-its, except for the pink ones. Place them on the board for all to see. Give the learners time to look at the board.

Step 7: Journal reflection

How did you experience doing this activity? Did anything surprise you? What?

Step 8: Summarise

Explain the concept of public and private telling.

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