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What if we could halve father absence in a generation?

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When fathers and father figures are present and positively engaged, children thrive – academically, financially, physically and emotionally – and are less likely to face mental health challenges, addiction and violence.

Heartlines Fathers Matter encourages the active, positive presence of fathers and father figures. It is the largest campaign of its kind in Africa. 

2.5 million
people have watched our Fathers Matter films
12,000+
users on our WhatsApp Coach
26,000
people reached through our face-to-face programmes
112
partner organsiations in our network

Fathers Matter can be used in many different contexts to help people understand WHY fathers matter and how they can be part of changing the story of fatherhood in South Africa.

 

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For Women
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Changing lives, families and communities

"I have learned
that being present is not enough, we need to be active. When I let go of my child's hand that's when the gangster takes it."- Firefighter, Kynsna
"The session was truly valuable
You addressed the issue of absent fathers and the relationship between fathers and their children in a way that resonated deeply with those present."- Bishop Bheki Buthelezi
"This session has allowed me
to deal with wound that I've been carrying for years. For the first time I feel I can talk about it begin my healing journey..."- Workshop Participant
"I am happy
to finally have an opportunity to get to know my father better through this programme of Fathers Matter."- Karabo, Roodepoort
"We would greatly appreciate it
if similar workshops could be held in other parts of eMpangeni, Eshowe, and Melmoth. There is a real need for this work in our communities."- Bishop Bheki Buthelezi

Stories

Cycling downhill
Themba Dlamini

The measure of a man is not in his fists

In many communities, the dominant image of manhood remains physical – protect, provide, endure, fight. These instincts are not inherently wrong. But they are incomplete.

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Sizwe
Lehlohonolo Ramosolo

The price children pay for migrant labour

Long before we had the social discussion about father absence, South Africa had already built systems that made it normal. Men left home not because they didn’t care, but because they had to. 

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Where does violence begin
Lehlohonolo Ramosolo

Where does our violence begin?

Randall's story is about breaking cycles, particularly the one he inherited from his father. Where addiction once defined him, he has chosen differently. Where his father’s absence shaped him, he now strives to be present for his child and his mother.

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When the streets raise our boys
Lehlohonolo Ramosolo

When the streets raise our boys

Despite having a father who was alive, Nkululeko did not have that consistent presence shaping his understanding of himself. And when that kind of guidance is missing, it doesn’t leave a gap for long. Something else fills it. In his case, the streets stepped in...

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Shattered Glass
Themba Dlamini

What’s Papa got to do with my rage?

Father absence removes one of the first buffers against violence – a daily presence where anger is noticed, slowed down, named, and shaped before it hardens.

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Lekgotla Article
Lehlohonolo Ramosolo

Education doesn’t fail at school first

At the 2026 Department of Basic Education Sector Lekgotla, Fathers Matter had a chance to highlight children's perspectives on fatherhood – and how their father experiences can influence their education. 

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